“If someone is getting in the way of you becoming the person God created you to be or is frustrating the work God has called you to do, for you that person is toxic.”
This quote is taken from Gary Thomas’ book When to Walk Away: Finding Freedom from Toxic People. He wrote this book to help the reader understand the impact of toxic people in their lives. He underscores this by adding, “This book is about protecting our mission from toxic attacks even more than it’s about protecting ourselves from toxic people.”
http://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.png00Marshall Eizengahttp://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.pngMarshall Eizenga2020-09-09 18:21:572020-09-09 18:21:57Book review: When to Walk Away: Finding Freedom from Toxic People by Gary Thomas
It’s been four years now since we got in our car and drove away from the city we loved and the church we had pastored for over 28 years. We moved to a new province, a new job and pretty much an entirely new life. The opportunities ahead were exciting. The future was bright. Everything on my “to-do” list had been checked off. The house was sold, the boxes were packed, the moving van was booked – I was ready to go. Or at least I thought I was ready.
“Purposeful waiting.” It sounds like a nice title for a fictional story. A little bit like a Hallmark movie. We can most likely dictate what will happen at the end when we’re only ten minutes into the movie.
There is a child that runs away, physically, mentally or spiritually – or perhaps all the above. They may not just run away but also run into a life of sin, self-pleasing and rebellion against God.
http://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.png00Sam Doerksenhttp://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.pngSam Doerksen2020-02-05 18:56:072020-02-05 19:47:51Purposeful waiting for a prodigal
“Who knows really what corrodes the soul to the point where it disintegrates?”
This quote is taken from Carey Nieuwhof’s latest book Didn’t See It Coming. In it, Nieuwhof describes the “seven greatest challenges that no one expects and everyone experiences.” The seven challenges are: cynicism, compromise, disconnection, irrelevance, pride, burnout and emptiness.
http://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.png00Marshall Eizengahttp://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.pngMarshall Eizenga2019-11-07 22:07:102019-11-07 22:07:10Book review: Didn’t See It Coming
The title of Lysa Terkeurst’s new book, It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way, immediately caught my attention and I knew I would be adding it to my “must read” list. She asks, “What do you do when God’s timing seems questionable, his lack of intervention hurtful and his promises doubtful?” Read more
http://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.png00Merrie Eizengahttp://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.pngMerrie Eizenga2019-06-14 21:40:212019-07-12 15:30:18Book review: It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way
Don’t say it can never happen to you. It almost happened to me. I was in a particularly vulnerable time of my life, feeling emotionally distant from my family, betrayed and confused, without a safe place to unburden myself. Read more
http://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.png00Anonymoushttp://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.pngAnonymous2019-05-24 23:56:332019-07-12 15:30:19Anatomy of temptation
It all began innocently enough. As a teen, I was interested in photography and picked up a black and white glamour photography magazine – beautiful nudes, faceless, graceful forms. My father spotted it in my room one day and shook his head at me in disgust: “What’s wrong with you? This will put you on the road to hell!” Read more
http://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.png00Anonymoushttp://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.pngAnonymous2019-05-24 22:46:392019-07-12 15:30:19It’s all about grace
I’ve been thinking of a small section of Scripture lately. Right after the killing of Stephen, we read in Acts 8:1:
“. . . On that day a great persecution broke out against the church at Jerusalem, and all except the apostles were scattered throughout Judea and Samaria.”
These believers did not respond to persecution as the old heroes of faith did, by willingly laying down their lives. No, they ran! Read more
We receive a lot of calls from pastors who struggle with depression. Here are some common symptoms of depression, plus guidance on what to do if you suspect depression has invaded your life. Read more
http://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.png00Focus on the Family Canadahttp://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.pngFocus on the Family Canada2019-05-24 22:15:472019-07-12 15:30:46Facts on depression
Recently I had one of those “aha” moments that causes you to sit back, take stock and re-evaluate your life. Being relatively new to social media, it was refreshing to discover how many friends I had on Facebook. That is until I scrolled down and discovered that many of them were unknown strangers. Read more
http://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.png00Steve Witmerhttp://clergycare.ca/app/uploads/2019/04/ClergyCare-2018-300x100.pngSteve Witmer2019-05-23 23:38:292019-07-12 15:30:47Why pastors need friends too
